Consider this a free session. That said, it is well within your rights to totally misinterpret these and use them to rationalize being even more selfish than you already are. But on the whole, there's some good insight here. If these don't cheer you up at all, here's some wholesome memes.

Text - on fonem @BELLEionaire My therapist told me this earlier this year and I promise lI'm taking it to my grave: If someone can't tell you what you did wrong or what the problem is, it is none of your business.